Bob, Thank you for this article. My mother passed away June 2nd of this year, a month ago yesterday, at the age of 94. I was able to see her before she made her transition. Although we never expected her to live forever, her passing has me thinking about my own mortality. With that in mind, I have printed out some of your other articles to study your advice a bit closer. I want to take it to heart. The one on manifesting (and the secret sauce related to attention) is a favorite. But more importantly I’m attracted to the advice in your article titled “What Life Is Trying to Teach You in Your Daily Experiences.” I have so many stories published in a now defunct blog that, with a bit of age and distance, I hope to find those gold nuggets and possibly start writing. (Possibly here on Substack.) I also have avowed to take my psychic medium studies more seriously. In that spy glass that lets us see the road ahead, I feel I have about 12 to 15 years of ‘good’ time left. In that time I want to give back to humanity in some shape or form. Thank you for your continued articles, inspiration, advice, and good storytelling! Be well.
Hi Patty, I'm so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. I know she lived to be 94, but the loss of a parent is difficult at any age. It's true that people's death makes us think about our own mortality.
I'm pleased to hear that you are planning ahead rather than thinking you'll always have enough time. My new book will be out soon regarding "What Life Is Trying to Teach You in Your Daily Experiences," so it might inspire you to put your blog stories between two covers. This is my fourth book, and I'm more excited about this one than all the others. I'll be sending out emails when it's available.
Finally, you might want to check out a teacher whom I admire and feel aligned with regarding psychic and mediumistic training. We call her Lisa K because her last name is Kumaradjaja, and her website is https://lmk88.com - Thanks for writing, and I'm sending a big hug to you regarding your Mom's passing. 🤗
Thank you eternally!! I just had to say that! I loved the article!
I love the subject of death and consider myself an NDE expert…. I cherish the subject! My father died 3 times, he said, Mitch, there is no death. Only later, much later, after losing him did I begin to explore the subject, now how I wish I could interview him regarding his death experiences.
I know I am off topic, your questions you pose are powerful, and I feel procrastination setting in!…. Laughing!
We often miss opportunities with our parents, recognizing the value of their experiences only after they're gone. It's true for other relatives and friends, too. It's just an extension of this article. Yet, I also wonder if your never talking further with your father about his death experiences was a catalyst toward your interest in this subject today. In other words, your father's passing moved you in a new trajectory that opened you up to a new reality. Perhaps this is how it was meant to be--like it was his final gift to you here on this physical dimension.
We get to interpret the meaning of our past, thereby rewriting the story so that we don't have regrets (as discussed in my article, What's Your Story). Thanks for your comment.
Thank you for offering the perspective that it's not a failing that we move from considering important things to believing 'there is no urgency'; rather it is a bit how we are designed. I think the imagery of the dogs and 'squirrel' is perfect, and one that can help me remember a focus (ironically) in the face of daily distractions against the larger themes of living with intention.
I appreciate reading your reaction, Bruce. It is always insightful and often reassuring that my point or message came through clearly. Thank you for...SQUIRREL!
I have an old Shipmate from Navy years who left me a message the other day. He hadn't heard from me in awhile as we regularly keep communication lines open. I was afraid to make contact and find out he had died. So, he calls and says "Gene, this is Senior Chief Ted calling to see how you're doing. The Grim Reaper hasn't knocked on my door yet." I will get back with him soon. By the way, he's a Jew and a devout Mormon. Thanks for this comforting insight.
Gene - what a sweet surprise to get that phone message from Senior Chief, Ted. Sounds like you were both thinking in the same way about The Grim Reaper ("I wonder if the Reaper got to him yet"). No doubt that will be a great phone call when you reconnect. I'd love to hear his views as a devout Mormon Jew. Even more, I would enjoy just listening to the two of you talking about spirituality. Thanks for sharing.
Hello Bob - life is good and interesting!! At age 87 - I am very active and have a life!! I asked my 47 yr old granddaughter if she would do my eulogy! She said of course. We have always been very close. I’m putting $ aside for my memorial. I believe in the afterlife and know the way I live and what I believe feels right!! Your articles are always “right on”!! Bless you and Melissa!! Rosanne Taylor
Hi Rosanne, I remember my grandmother announcing that she had purchased real estate (she never owned a home). She was in her 80s. Her grin revealed it wasn't what we were expecting. Turns out she purchased a cemetery plot, and made all the arrangements for her funeral with the funeral home that our family used for generations. I think having your granddaughter in charge of your eulogy is a beautiful honor. It also gives you and her an excuse to get together and talk about your life. Blessings, Bob
Bob great article. I am 77 but still work 3 days a week. I do think of my mortality though I am fairly healthy and both my parents lived to 90. Still that great beyond is coming, I hope YOUR mom is where she is supposed to be. My deceased husband’s sister, whom I have been associated with, died a week ago at home alone, unfortunately was not found until her cat had also died. I know this is best for her. She had no friends (never had many, due to her lack of a filter) but we did have fun times together over the years. She was 79, but I was not expecting this to happen. I think most of us do not want to die screaming in pain, and I have to say that is not a pleasant scenario! As my father said to me when he was ill, “I’m not afraid to die, but I’m afraid of HOW I am going to die.” Turns out he died peacefully, the whole family was there. Great food for thought.
Hi Jeanne, I'm so sorry you lost your sister-in-law. She was fortunate to have you in her life, as I can tell you feel blessed to have had her in your life as well. Everyone is doing fine here, thanks. I appreciate your comments.
Bob. Great article on mortality and living every day, I am 81 and having fun even though I have major medical issues! God Bless you in what you are doing for all who read and watch you on video! Rene Fritz
Bob, Thank you for this article. My mother passed away June 2nd of this year, a month ago yesterday, at the age of 94. I was able to see her before she made her transition. Although we never expected her to live forever, her passing has me thinking about my own mortality. With that in mind, I have printed out some of your other articles to study your advice a bit closer. I want to take it to heart. The one on manifesting (and the secret sauce related to attention) is a favorite. But more importantly I’m attracted to the advice in your article titled “What Life Is Trying to Teach You in Your Daily Experiences.” I have so many stories published in a now defunct blog that, with a bit of age and distance, I hope to find those gold nuggets and possibly start writing. (Possibly here on Substack.) I also have avowed to take my psychic medium studies more seriously. In that spy glass that lets us see the road ahead, I feel I have about 12 to 15 years of ‘good’ time left. In that time I want to give back to humanity in some shape or form. Thank you for your continued articles, inspiration, advice, and good storytelling! Be well.
Hi Patty, I'm so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. I know she lived to be 94, but the loss of a parent is difficult at any age. It's true that people's death makes us think about our own mortality.
I'm pleased to hear that you are planning ahead rather than thinking you'll always have enough time. My new book will be out soon regarding "What Life Is Trying to Teach You in Your Daily Experiences," so it might inspire you to put your blog stories between two covers. This is my fourth book, and I'm more excited about this one than all the others. I'll be sending out emails when it's available.
Finally, you might want to check out a teacher whom I admire and feel aligned with regarding psychic and mediumistic training. We call her Lisa K because her last name is Kumaradjaja, and her website is https://lmk88.com - Thanks for writing, and I'm sending a big hug to you regarding your Mom's passing. 🤗
Thank you eternally!! I just had to say that! I loved the article!
I love the subject of death and consider myself an NDE expert…. I cherish the subject! My father died 3 times, he said, Mitch, there is no death. Only later, much later, after losing him did I begin to explore the subject, now how I wish I could interview him regarding his death experiences.
I know I am off topic, your questions you pose are powerful, and I feel procrastination setting in!…. Laughing!
Hi Michelle,
We often miss opportunities with our parents, recognizing the value of their experiences only after they're gone. It's true for other relatives and friends, too. It's just an extension of this article. Yet, I also wonder if your never talking further with your father about his death experiences was a catalyst toward your interest in this subject today. In other words, your father's passing moved you in a new trajectory that opened you up to a new reality. Perhaps this is how it was meant to be--like it was his final gift to you here on this physical dimension.
We get to interpret the meaning of our past, thereby rewriting the story so that we don't have regrets (as discussed in my article, What's Your Story). Thanks for your comment.
Thank you for offering the perspective that it's not a failing that we move from considering important things to believing 'there is no urgency'; rather it is a bit how we are designed. I think the imagery of the dogs and 'squirrel' is perfect, and one that can help me remember a focus (ironically) in the face of daily distractions against the larger themes of living with intention.
I appreciate reading your reaction, Bruce. It is always insightful and often reassuring that my point or message came through clearly. Thank you for...SQUIRREL!
I have an old Shipmate from Navy years who left me a message the other day. He hadn't heard from me in awhile as we regularly keep communication lines open. I was afraid to make contact and find out he had died. So, he calls and says "Gene, this is Senior Chief Ted calling to see how you're doing. The Grim Reaper hasn't knocked on my door yet." I will get back with him soon. By the way, he's a Jew and a devout Mormon. Thanks for this comforting insight.
Gene - what a sweet surprise to get that phone message from Senior Chief, Ted. Sounds like you were both thinking in the same way about The Grim Reaper ("I wonder if the Reaper got to him yet"). No doubt that will be a great phone call when you reconnect. I'd love to hear his views as a devout Mormon Jew. Even more, I would enjoy just listening to the two of you talking about spirituality. Thanks for sharing.
Hello Bob - life is good and interesting!! At age 87 - I am very active and have a life!! I asked my 47 yr old granddaughter if she would do my eulogy! She said of course. We have always been very close. I’m putting $ aside for my memorial. I believe in the afterlife and know the way I live and what I believe feels right!! Your articles are always “right on”!! Bless you and Melissa!! Rosanne Taylor
Hi Rosanne, I remember my grandmother announcing that she had purchased real estate (she never owned a home). She was in her 80s. Her grin revealed it wasn't what we were expecting. Turns out she purchased a cemetery plot, and made all the arrangements for her funeral with the funeral home that our family used for generations. I think having your granddaughter in charge of your eulogy is a beautiful honor. It also gives you and her an excuse to get together and talk about your life. Blessings, Bob
Bob great article. I am 77 but still work 3 days a week. I do think of my mortality though I am fairly healthy and both my parents lived to 90. Still that great beyond is coming, I hope YOUR mom is where she is supposed to be. My deceased husband’s sister, whom I have been associated with, died a week ago at home alone, unfortunately was not found until her cat had also died. I know this is best for her. She had no friends (never had many, due to her lack of a filter) but we did have fun times together over the years. She was 79, but I was not expecting this to happen. I think most of us do not want to die screaming in pain, and I have to say that is not a pleasant scenario! As my father said to me when he was ill, “I’m not afraid to die, but I’m afraid of HOW I am going to die.” Turns out he died peacefully, the whole family was there. Great food for thought.
Hi Jeanne, I'm so sorry you lost your sister-in-law. She was fortunate to have you in her life, as I can tell you feel blessed to have had her in your life as well. Everyone is doing fine here, thanks. I appreciate your comments.
Bob. Great article on mortality and living every day, I am 81 and having fun even though I have major medical issues! God Bless you in what you are doing for all who read and watch you on video! Rene Fritz
Hi Rene! People who are 81 have more fun. Thanks for your comment!