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Oh, Bob, are you right on the money! Thanks a million for this wonderful and 100% accurate message. As I've shared with you, I lost my beautiful mom last April and have really been struggling with the grief as well as my skepticism about our existence after death. I've seen many, many mediums--both over the years and particularly since I lost my mom. However, I've had very few of what I would call highly evidential readings--really only one, if truth be told. Several mediums have come through with what I could say is evidence and I do believe they were connecting with my mom as well as my brother, but there was not the level of specific detail I longed for. I would dearly love to have the kind of reading where someone brings up a nickname and provides evidence that my mom and other loved ones in spirit (my entire family has passed). That's actually why I keep looking for mediums and having appointments with them; I've read so many accounts of this very specific info coming through and I am seeking the same kind of experience. I also just miss my mom so much and am longing to connect with her. I have had the extremely demoralizing experience of having my husband and another family member come down on me when I've shared some of the details of readings I've had where I felt my mom was coming through. They are total nonbelievers and think I'm being gullible and silly for believing in mediums or even entertaining the possibility that some people can communicate with those in spirit. I have been reduced to tears--and have had to struggle even harder to hold on to any sense of knowing I've been trying to hard to achieve. I learned my lesson; from now on I will share only with those who are open or who actually believe. I'm hoping I will get to the point of truly knowing and be able to feel a sustained sense of comfort that my mom and other loved ones in spirit--and there are many--are still with me. I miss them all so much. Thank you for sharing your own insights and the wisdom you've gained over the years. Your loyal subscriber, Anna

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Hi Anna, thank you for being so honest with me about your experiences. Dealing with a lifetime of skepticism can certainly turn a great reading into an okay one or an okay reading into a less-than-satisfying one. It sure doesn't help when people ruin even an okay reading for you. We cling to whatever connection we can feel with our loved ones in spirit, only to be pulled back by other people's cynicism and skepticism. Such is the reality of a personal exploration of the afterlife, which is why I thought this subject was important to discuss. I'm glad it spoke to you, and I hope it will help in the long run. I wish you the very best, and hope you get that connection that you long for (that we all long for). Warm wishes, Bob

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Thank you so much, Bob. I am so thankful for your insights and wisdom! Take good care, Anna

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